Hi michael h,
Regarding how to set the ceilings - autofloor, I answered your question in this location
Punchhelpers, "Variable ceiling heights" #1, 30 Oct 2006 10:28 am
And of course, if you have additional questions about Punch, just let us know
Regarding the "typical values" for the pieces, As you probably know, I am an Architect, so for your own safety (and your family's), let me explain some issues, starting with the building codes
As we all know, there is a building code, but each state has its own version / adaptation as well as each county.
An Architect, Engineer, etc must elaborate the interpretation / application of the Building codes, calculation of structures and foundations, etc. Not only for the technical understanding of these issues, but for the liability.
An advice regarding a technical subject (something basic as the wood dimension and independent if you are paid for this advice or not) implies liability. And this could be a legal issue if I (or other professional or a software) provide advice about a technical problem
Structures / materials are quite different depending the characteristics of the soil / topography, wind conditions and seismic calculations.
I'd suggest also, to read my article "Do I need an architect?"in my website
http://www.punchhelpers.com/need_arch.html or you can check lots of interesting discussions about this topic in this forum. Perform a search with the word "architect" and "CAD"
Hope this helps
Patricia